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Post by yasoooo on Mar 6, 2015 19:22:49 GMT 1
one of the most questioned principles that Islam grants men and women. Indeed, many people wrongfully accuse Islam of injustice because it allows a man to have up to four wives. Nevertheless, like every instruction in the Quran, polygyny has a reason. You see, Islam is a practical religion that acknowledges the needs and temptations of human beings and provides laws that deal with them, thus preserving harmony and morality. - Polygyny might be the solution for a couple if the wife is barren, the husband wants children of his own and the option of separation does not appeal to both parties. - If a woman is chronically ill and is unable to perform her marital duties. Polygyny may also be the solution when the couple does not want divorce. - Polygyny is the religion's answer to cases where some men have excessive sexual needs that cannot be fulfilled by one wife. This in no way means that men should abuse this right and use it whenever they fancy a woman. It is rather a chance Islam has provided to prevent men from committing adultery. Many people who condemn polygyny cheat on their wives, calling this phenomenon a 'swift affair.' Islam, at least, has offered the second woman the option of being called 'a wife' rather than 'a mistress', especially in some countries where women remarkably outnumber men. - Polygyny may settle the problem of an increased number of unmarried women, especially during wars. However, polygyny has some limits and conditions to be met. Indeed, the Quran instructs the man to be fair with his wives on all levels, including treatment, money, house, etc. The only level where the man may have an uneven stance is the level of the feelings that he cannot control: The Quran says (what means): "You will never be able to do perfect justice between wives even if it is your ardent desire, so do not incline too much to one of them [by giving her more of your time and provision] so as to leave the other hanging [i.e. neither divorced nor married]. And if you do justice, and do all that is right and fear Allaah by keeping away from all that is wrong, then Allaah is Ever-Forgiving and All-Merciful." [Quran 4:129] Finally, it is worth knowing that Islam gives a woman the right to refuse polygyny for her husband by setting it as a condition during the marriage procedures. If this condition is set, then the woman is granted divorce if her husband marries another while he is still married to her. www.youtube.com/watch?v=uoMS_65eUq0
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Post by yasoooo on Mar 9, 2015 16:12:05 GMT 1
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Post by yasoooo on Mar 12, 2015 16:09:26 GMT 1
== - Women take care of children and look after the affairs of the house and her husband in the first place In her spare time doing useful work for it or to others - The husband helps his wife in the house and work outside the home This from the actions of the Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him, with his wife Sewing clothes and help in the work of the house So the Muslim must apply the correct Sunna will feel happiness 1 - Holy Qur'an and the Hadith is for all time and place Without shortages or increased God says in the Holy Qur'an (3) This day those who disbelieve have despaired of [defeating] your religion; so fear them not, but fear Me. This day I have perfected for you your religion and completed My favor upon you and have approved for you Islam as religion. 2 - polygamy is essential today You see the ongoing war in Palestine, Iraq, Afghanistan, Chechnya, Syria We can not ignore Orphans and widows there 3 - polygamy solution to the problem of infertility Modern methods do not work in every case So I live with a close community I see many cases a result of the successful marriage of a second wife 4 - Men's sexual desires You see in recent years Opening up the world between countries, the Internet and stirring instincts constantly in the media So instead of the direction of the Adultery on a daily basis such as the West There is a solution in Islam, a legal marriage between them, provided of Justice Either two or three or four 5 - revelation ended After the death of the Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him Anyone who can not be changed or replaced Do you want to increase to Islam or shortages of it? This is heresy God says in the Holy Qur'an (44) Indeed, We sent down the Torah, in which was guidance and light. The prophets who submitted [to Allah] judged by it for the Jews, as did the rabbis and scholars by that with which they were entrusted of the Scripture of Allah, and they were witnesses thereto. So do not fear the people but fear Me, and do not exchange My verses for a small price. And whoever does not judge by what Allah has revealed – then it is those who are the disbelievers. (45) And We ordained for them therein a life for a life, an eye for an eye, a nose for a nose, an ear for an ear, a tooth for a tooth, and for wounds is legal retribution. But whoever gives [up his right as] charity, it is an expiation for him. And whoever does not judge by what Allah has revealed – then it is those who are the wrongdoers. (36) It is not for a believing man or a believing woman, when Allah and His Messenger have decided a matter, that they should [thereafter] have any choice about their affair. And whoever disobeys Allah and His Messenger has certainly strayed into clear error لقاء الشيخ أحمد ديدات بسيدات الأعمال وأصحاب النفوذ بمدينة ديربان – مترجم www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZGrEncyTGIADurban Business and Professional Women At The IPCI \\ www.youtube.com/watch?v=P4gaqBI20h4www.youtube.com/watch?v=J5eIr9ZUfm4
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Post by yasoooo on Mar 14, 2015 16:26:26 GMT 1
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Post by yasoooo on Mar 17, 2015 21:35:28 GMT 1
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Post by yasoooo on Mar 20, 2015 15:32:59 GMT 1
Regarding hitting your women ..well we got lucky in this case.You will ask how? Well , some people asked about this verse from Muhammad (PBUH) himself and thank God , on this matter , we have the interpretation of the most supreme interpreter of the Qur'an ... Muhammad himself! So according to the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) ... the "beating" referring in this verse is "symbolic beating" and it should be done as the "last resort" in any relationship. So Islam only tell us about "symbolic beating" and that too , in the case where wife is being completely unfair to the husband (like having affairs with others)..After that "symbolic beating" , next stage is left is divorce.. And Prophet (PBUH) also mentioned the nature of this symbolic beating... According to Prophet , a person can "beat" his wife with a "misvaak" .. Misvaak is a branch of tree that is thinner than a tooth brush and about the same size as our every-day tooth brushes ..and person CAN NOT hit her wife on the face and he should not hit her wife on the body so hard that any 'scar' is left... All these things are mentioned in detail in Muhammad's interpretation of this issue...Now you tell me , is this even a problem? I actually see this verse as one of the good things in Qur'an because Qur'an and Prophet here have explicitly established the limit of husband in reference to her wife. And ANYTHING beyond this limit automatically becomes a sin/unlawful/not-allowed ... Now if THIS is the 'limit' , what else you women can ask for ? and remember , this the 'law' established 1400 years ago in the harsh environment of tribal Arabia. Can you show me other SUCH humane laws for women during that time era? and also , this symbolic "beating" is the LAST resort in which husband tries to tell wife "enough is enough"...after that..there is divorce. Now people who would beat their wives will do so without any reason...they won't think about Islam , Christianity , Sikhism , etc etc ..they'll do it because they'll do it. But in Islam , there is absolutely no place for wife beating... Does the Quran say beat your Wife? ┇FUNNY┇ Sh. Khalid Yasin ┇Smile...itz Sunnah┇ - YouTube www.youtube.com/watch?v=IzL-2lPo6Mgwww.youtube.com/watch?v=1uM9SLfy35w
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Post by yasoooo on Mar 23, 2015 22:56:51 GMT 1
Also the holy Quran announced her rights: [And women shall have rights similar to the rights against them, according to what is equitable;] [On the contrary live with them on a footing of kindness and equity] [But bestow on them (a suitable gift), the wealthy according to his means, and the poor according to his means; a gift of a reasonable amount is due from those who wish to do the right thing. ] [Let the women live (in 'iddat,) in the same style as ye live, according to your means: annoy them not, so as to restrict them] [From what is left by parents and those nearest related there is a share for men and a share for women, whether the property be small or large, a determinate share] [And to women what they earn:] [Permitted to you, on the night of the fasts, is the approach to your wives. They are your garments and ye are their garments] [O ye who believe! ye are forbidden to inherit women against their will. Nor should ye treat them with harshness, that ye may take away part of the dower ye have given them,]
the woman in the western world is only commodity in the hands of men ...
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listen here this will help you inshaallah to understand
هل كان محمد رسولا حقا ؟ - مترجم ┇ ? Was Muhammad a true prophet
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Post by yasoooo on Mar 26, 2015 15:08:26 GMT 1
\\\ My dear brother Your problem with your spouse you Can resolved in an easy and very effective After work Bought a beautiful bouquet of flowers or a gift your wife love it And go to the house Give her a gift and embraced her and told her you love her a lot Then have lunch with her then Hold her hand gently talk with her about your life quietly And told her that you want to continue with her until the end of life And ask her about the reason for her anger and grief and tried to change for her So no need to hit Beating women comes in the final stage God says in the Holy Qur'an But those [wives] from whom you fear arrogance - [first] advise them; [then if they persist], forsake them in bed; and [finally], strike them. But if they obey you [once more], seek no means against them. Indeed, Alla h is ever Exalted and Grand. I wish you a happy and comfortable life God guided you to Islam Mu`awiyah bin Haidah (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: I asked Messenger of Allah (PBUH): "What right can any wife demand of her husband?" He replied, "You should give her food when you eat, clothe her when you clothe yourself, not strike her on the face, and do not revile her or separate from her except in the house".[Abu Dawud]. Commentary: If it comes to temporarily severing relation with a disobedient wife to set her right, it should be done within the house and the best course for it is that one suspends the practice of sleeping with her. Some people say that this suspension should be to the extent of sleeping with her only and one should not stop speaking to her because that will increase the rift between the two. But in case of special circumstances, one can separate from her by leaving his home, as was done by the Prophet (PBUH) by shifting to upper room of his house. حكاية حب و زواج مقطع مؤثر مترجم بالعربية www.youtube.com/watch?v=mRKV0q790yIEvery Muslim to Christian, Jewish and atheist - Give your op www.youtube.com/watch?v=EqmfSOLeIo8
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Post by yasoooo on Mar 28, 2015 16:50:44 GMT 1
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Post by yasoooo on Mar 31, 2015 22:10:01 GMT 1
\\\\ The Bible: Also , Jesus did not prohibit polygamy, but is prohibited divorce, because if you can have many wives, why the divorce, while it was normal, because women can not work. 2 Chronicles 13:21 (BLB) Abijah waxed great, and married 14 wives, and begat twenty and two sons and daughters 16. 2 Chronicles 11:21 (BLB) I like Rehoboam Maacah daughter of Absalom above all his wives and concubines for him, because he took 18 wives and concubines 60, was born twenty and eight sons and daughters 60. For the Prophet Sulaiman [Solomon], and I think you know without martyrdom, had hundreds of wives and concubines hundreds. After these things known until Ibrahim ... And his concubine, whose name also carries a good Reumah of, Gaham, Thahash and Maacah. And the sons of concubines, which Abraham had, Abraham gave gifts and sent them away from Isaac his son, while he was living until now, the east, even in the East (Genesis 25:6) How about Sarah and told Abraham to go to the concubine Hagar, as you know, probably emigrated did not want to. It was then you know what happened, she left in the desert. Remember God is God of Abraham, as a concubine and her child, but that it was. \\\ مناقشة محاضرة المسيح فى الإسلام - الشيخ أحمد ديدات يناقش كاهن ونصرانية (مترجم) www.youtube.com/watch?v=dk0yG_PuhTk
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Post by yasoooo on Apr 3, 2015 22:04:36 GMT 1
\\\ in Islam, Judaism and Christianity One in everything The Old Testament and New Testament This caused confusion for people True Gospel Gospel of our Lord Jesus, peace be upon him Is not now In the Bible, and also: , the Bible says that women must obey their husbands; it says that women are to remain silent in church and not to speak out; it says that if you (a woman) want to ask something, you are to wait until you get home and ask your husband; Bible says that women must not wear jewellery or adornments in church etc. Let a woman learn in silence with all subjection; And any woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence ... Furthermore, it allows for women in Islam to teach men, Aisha, may Allah be pleased by God, the wife of the Prophet may Allah bless him and greet him, after the death of her husband made a lot of talk and the men came with her questions are answered always, but without opening the door, sat down at the door He listened to what she says. This is the case with my husband, wife can discuss. As for the hit. And those whom you fear rebellion, , And urges , Leave them in boxes and - Crushed. And if they obey you, do not seek a way against them, - that God is a great thing! The first is to talk about disukussii all, there are a lot of things, but the hit-and-then, without damage, possible only when the - Was a conversation, alerted her husband - Try a different effect on that, and he refused to have in the vicinity But when it did not help, they are allowed to hit, but no casualties were reported, and the Internet can find all the rules that you can hit, or you can go on to discuss whether to live as husband and wife. Thus, just so no one nakinetsya his fist, and usually can not be beat by hand. There are women with a share of masochism, which can not be said, DAK, they beg their way. But that does not need that, and not begging in the Koran and other means to resolve the conflict in the family. Man gets more of the inheritance, because you should not only himself but also his family and women should have only themselves, but if she married, she herself may not have even, but it can be spent on the family, and not prohibited her husband from taking that woman spends on family, and there is already agreement on, but if you do not want, you can not force .. As for jewelry, it's just not the makeup of pozvolitelen home, house, wife, and her husband did it, and it is recommended that you use incense. Also to his wife in modest clothing, with shamefacedness and sobriety, not with clothes [hair] braided, or gold or pearls or expensive, but by good deeds, as befits women who profess godliness www.youtube.com/watch?v=kjp6e2OwZFwعيسى المسيح - انسان , اسطوره , أم إله www.youtube.com/watch?v=2MvQNv1RldEJesus Christ Man, Myth, or God www.youtube.com/watch?v=LkPITDi6YEo
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Post by yasoooo on Apr 6, 2015 21:49:48 GMT 1
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Post by yasoooo on Apr 9, 2015 17:44:16 GMT 1
Someone told me yaso, A question for you (sorry if I have asked before & forgotten your reply): Some Islamophobes on this forum (and elsewhere) say Islam is suppressive towards women. Yet, it has been conclusively proven that 70% of all new converts to Islam both in the USA and in Europe are women. This would be indicative that it is not suppressive but highly solicitous of women. What do you say to those critics who insist that Islam suppresses women in light of that fact? If I read you correctly, you are saying that Islam provides spiritual comforts and dimensions that other religions/teachings do not. That it is more than religious teaching but includes lifestyle alteration and attitudes which is what appeals to women. One things for sure, Islam's critics have no answer for why so many women convert to it despite all the allegations that it is a contrarian religion. \\\\ www.youtube.com/watch?v=E-1wamGHrS8\\\\ www.youtube.com/watch?v=KiNnPcdZxDs
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Post by yasoooo on Apr 13, 2015 20:08:02 GMT 1
A: The Islamic hijab must meet the 8 conditions as the scholars said, are: 1 - Not to be a garment of fame. 2 - and that is not brazen thin (ie, should not be transparent). 3 - and that covers her all the body except her face . 4 - and that is not in itself a decoration. 5 - and not to be embodied for the body (ie, should not be tight). 6 - and should not be perfumed with bakhoor. 7 - and that does not resemble the clothing of the man. 8 - Finally, that does not resemble the dress of kaafir women. "Lets Talk about Hijab" ┇FUNNY┇ by Br. Baba Ali ┇Smile...itz Sunnah┇ www.youtube.com/watch?v=pVFKHupetdo By proofs, Islam is The right way of life ever .Dr zakir Nai www.youtube.com/watch?v=FKtQN1ZYplYConvert to Islam (Anaheim School) www.youtube.com/watch?v=unoP7lSiHoo
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Post by yasoooo on Apr 16, 2015 18:36:00 GMT 1
• \\\\ \\\\ Some clarification Veil Prevents bad ideas Hijab is an obligation and a necessity for every Muslim woman In order to protect them from any harm or assault Veiled women that encourages you to respect them Women dressed in scandalous Encourage you to consider it rudely And access to The assault For perverts And the number in the many communities rave Regardless of the laws yes The man also Must be inside Honor, integrity And high morals But Women are the other half to the man For adornment and should not be blatant Her clothes and entice men gross Because the man Humans is in the first place He has feelings and sensations We can not deny. Western society Full of adultery, betrayal, sexual harassment and illegitimate children and family disintegration www.youtube.com/watch?v=_IykFGpSuys In ignorance Hijab for women with high-Shan Housemaid did not wear veil to signify that a simple Holy Qur'an and the Hadith Constitution and the methodology for life Of the application and implementation At home benefit in this life and the afterlife Muslim does not go on the fancies But The commands of God in the first place God says in the Holy Qur'an (59) O Prophet, tell your wives and your daughters and the women of the believers to bring down over themselves [part] of their outer garments. That is more suitable that they will be known and not be abused. And ever is Allah Forgiving and Merciful إن نساء العجم يكشفن صدورهن ورءوسهن قال أصرف بصرك عنهن )) رواه الإمام البخاري Unfortunately In America Cases of rape Of a woman or girl Every 6 minutes Statistics has reported that juvenile crime has a very important reason is illegal mixing between the sexes. Also proved that mixing between the sexes in an exaggerated manner may cause a lot of distractions, crime and psychological problems. It may be one of the worst results of mixing rape. Enough that we know that in the United States have been raped (19) million women!! In Germany are recording (35) tho A rape every year! In America are born each year a million children from crimes of adultery and rape, by contrast, is number of abortions more than one million process and every year. And there are a lot of bad results on both sexes as a result of the legalization of illegally mixing raises emotions and instincts delve man to the swamps of vice. أحمد ديدات والرد الساحق على شبهات حول القرآن www.youtube.com/watch?v=mrSKNBhvApQأحمد ديدات - آيات قرآنية علمية تردع الملاحده www.youtube.com/watch?v=HZPdPvY3h1g
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